Tuesday, June 9, 2009
P.S. about the girl in chicago
the other day i had some random feeling to tell her i trust her ok...so then she tells me she has a date that night but she was going to keep it a secret but then decided to tell me because obviously i trust her plus i told her something extremely truthful...but then she said sorry...i asked why...and she wouldnt tell me...and she is always "busy" doing what she never tells me...so i am extremely suspicious...
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I wondered if that might be who you were talking about since you had mentioned her before, but I just wanted to make sure. Sometimes it seems like I get one name straight and then you are talking about someone else. One of these days I'll figure it out.
Long distance relationships are pretty tough. And it sounds like she's still pretty young. I think even though you want her to wait for you, it's good that you didn't tell her to. Dating other people can be a big benefit for her even if it only proves to her that she'd be the most happy with you. Then once you're back, assuming she's still available, you can pusue things from there. (All the more reason to get on the mission asap).
I agree with Amy. There is no way you should expect her not to date other boys and she should expect you not to date other girls at this point. You are both too young and too far away from each other to limit yourselves like that. Do your thing, she'll do hers, and if she's still around in a few years (and older!) you can get together and see about pursuing it then. I know it seems very serious right now, but really try not to stress out about it. Just have fun and don't worry! Things will fall into place, you don't have to spend time being jealous and suspicious right now. No sense in making yourself miserable about something that IF it happens is several years into the future.
Any decisions mission vs. Air Force right now?
I agree with both of them, nothing more!
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